PROBLEMS WITH MOTHER IN LAW?

An understanding and supportive mother-in-law is like a blessing however, she can be hard to deal with as well. Peruse on to realize how to deal with the issues:

WHAT ARE SOME GENERAL ISSUES?

• She will never concede that she's off-base

• Will anticipate that you should satisfy her and follow her feelings, religion, culture, and so on

• Will attempt to show she can control your husband and kids

• Doesn't regard your words, decisions, or individual space

• Plays emotional games to manipulate your partner and children

• Forces you to have kids or differentiates between a boy and girl child

POSSIBLE REASONS FOR ISSUES

• Till now she was dealing with the family, she may feel uncertain about your quality

• Your better half who is her child has now divided his love among you and her

• She desires things being done her way and is not pleased with any change

TIPS FOR DEALING

• Consider why she is treating you this way

• Most of it is due to insecurity. Show that nobody can actually have her spot in anybody's life 

• Explain your point of view courteously. Never speak to her in a loud voice

• Avoid stretching the conflict. Try not to battle about past issues 

• Take your better half's assistance. He should assume a functioning part in helping his mom acclimate to you

• Remember that she's probably not going to change. Accept that this is the way things are and stop reacting. 

• Think about her as your own mom

Note: Choose the cutoff to which you will bargain with your mother-in-law. If things go beyond the limit, talk to your better half, and discuss what to do.